Friday, January 09, 2009

Andrew is 20 months old





Since I skipped 19 months, it really seems like Andrew has grown up a lot since the last time I wrote.

Andrew is talking so much more than before. He probably knows at least 100 words and seems to be adding and using new ones all the time. I guess you really do hit a language explosion about 18 months. He is starting to say 2 and 3 word phrases (I wouldn't call them sentences without a subject) like "good job", "more rice please", and "play cars". Of course, about half of his words still seem to do with cars and trucks, even when he's asleep! He is also learning polite words. He picked up "bless" for bless you when someone sneezes on his own. After much teaching, he learned please and half the time when he wants something he will just say "please" instead of telling us what he wants.

His new favorite thing is to pretend to talk on the phone: his play one, our old phone, or our actual phone. He pretends to talk to Daddy and Pa and mostly talks about eating rice and playing cars and says, "What?" all the time. He figured out how to make our actual phone ring and then answers it and talks on the phone. He actually answered the phone once this week without me knowing it and said, "What?" My friend thought it was very funny.

For awhile there, his tantrums were very bad. One day, he had two tantrums that were over 30 minutes each! And he could still remember what he was fussing about. Mostly it was because he was tired/hungry, but still. Thankfully, the tantrums have really calmed down and are down to the normal 30 second things. I'm sure it's just a taste of what's in store for the next couple years.

Andrew is finally finally starting to sleep better. He is finally very settled on one afternoon nap that lasts anywhere from 1-3.5 hours. He usually wakes up still tired and cranky and then ends up falling asleep in my arms for another little while. Fine by me - reading time because it's too hard to do real work on the laptop like that. He is still hard to get to sleep (wants us there / takes awhile), but he sleeps by himself in the toddler bed all night and only wakes up once (usually) around 4:30 and needs comforting back to sleep. I don't blame him for waking up because we live like 20 feet from a railroad and the train comes by then (well, twice actually) and blows its whistle SOOO loud. Half the time, people's car alarms go off, too. Anyways ... this is quite an achievement for Andrew and I am so glad he is in a toddler bed instead of the crib.

Andrew LOVES to play, of course. He is starting to get quite imaginative. He got a Little People farm set for Christmas and loves to play with the animals - they dance and walk around, go for trips in his plane, kiss each other, ride on his cars. He also loves to play with his cars, lining them all up or throwing them off the table. He loves to build towers with his blocks and then put cars or people under them or run his railroad tracks under them. He loves to build railroad tracks and run his train on them or send his Little People down the railroad track as a slide. He also loves to read, for as much as 30-45 minutes at a time.

It's been so cold and snows almost every day so I've been very negligent about taking us outside. But this week, I decided that has to change. So each afternoon, we got out for a little 15 minute walk in the snow. Andrew loves to wear his boots (which are really rain boots because I have never bought him snow boots), hat and mittens. (The snowsuit, as you can see, wasn't such a great idea). He hates when the snow gets on his boots but eventually gets used to it (he has to when there's a foot of snow). We even went sledding today! I'm not sure how much he liked that - he said "Whee", but twice was more than enough.

Andrew really loves to eat. He still loves to eat rice, but meatballs have actually surpassed that love. He also can eat more than 6 clementines a day! That's a lot for a little boy. He loves to get canned food from the pantry and tell me he wants to eat it - his favorite is corn, but he likes canned fruit, too. He even has drunk milk a few times! And I think he is growing. He is definitely getting taller and has finally outgrown all of his 12 month clothes. 24 month clothes are still much too tall for pants, but fine otherwise.

He really loved visiting his grandparents for both Thanksgiving and Christmas. He talks about Pa all the time and also loves to look at the collage of family portraits we have above his bed. He likes playing with kids as well, but is still not too keen on sharing. But he loves nursery and the classes that Katsu and he attend together.

It's been a fun few months with Andrew.

Saturday, January 03, 2009

Our Trip to Texas: On the Way Back

3 more days of adventures leaving Dec 30th and getting home Jan 1:

Stop One: Hot Springs National Park
We only stayed for an hour, but seeing the steaming hot water come up from the ground was pretty cool - well, actually hot at about 134 degrees. The grounds were pretty, the weather was excellent and touring the historic bathhouse was fun, too.







Stop Two: Bill Clinton Presidential Library and Museum
These sort of museums always seem to be very well done. So, we stopped in and really enjoyed it. Andrew was a little less than impressed, but even with the speed-tour he necessitated, I feel like I learned something and was more appreciative for a lot of the bills that were passed during his era. The coverage (or scanty coverage) of the whole Monica Lewinsky affair was interesting. The museum itself was beautiful.




Stop Three: Little Rock Central High School National Historic Site
After visiting the Civil Rights Museum, we were really interested in seeing the school where rioting over integration was really crazy. Even though the site was officially closed, we took a few pictures.



We stayed the night near Memphis (I think ...) but in Arkansaw. The next day we drove and drove and drove. We stopped at an Old Country Buffet for lunch and then drove and drove and drove through Tennessee and into Kentucky until we finally reached:

Stop Four: Abraham Lincoln's Birthplace and Boyhood Home
We hit the birthplace about half an hour before it closes because you switch time zones back to Eastern right before getting there. We watched a video, same the nice memorial (with a typical, but not the Lincoln's, cabin, looked at the well where they got there water, and then hurried back to the car (it was cold). We drove another 10 miles to the boyhood home (which was closed) and saw the original, but not open boyhood home. A nice stop to commemorate a nice president. Glad I don't have to live in such tiny cold log cabins!





We drove and drove some more to the border right before Cincinnati and found a hotel room, then Katsu drove to Kroger and loaded up on cheese, fruit, and sparkling cider to celebrate the New Years and we cuddled on the bed all 3 of us and watched New Years specials. Katsu had to wake me up at midnight for the countdown (whoops!).

Stop Five: Cincinnati Museum Complex

This old train station includes a Natural History Museum, Cincinnati History Museum and a Children's Museum, so we went and saw all three. The Natural History Museum had some really cool parts - a cave to climb through with water and formations and everything. Andrew LOVED the trains in the History Museum. Andrew loved the Children's Museum with all their fun play centers and especially the water area. We took a little break for lunch and then saw the History museum which had some really really cool train exhibits showing Cincinnati at all different times in history.










Then, we drove and drove and drove until we got home to Ann Arbor!

Friday, January 02, 2009

How to Survive 36+ hours of Driving with a 1 1/2 year old


A portable DVD player.

(also lots of snacks and stopping every 2-3 hours and many many impromptu sing-a-longs)

Between that and lots of TV / movies at Grandma and Grandpa's ...

The following conversation took place between me and Andrew about 30 minutes away from Ann Arbor on the way home:

Amanda: Now that we are home, we will go back to the old rules - no more movies and no TV.

Andrew: (bursts into tears)

In Texas











I am not a big picture taker, especially when I'm at family's being lazy, but we did get some pictures when we went to see ICE - a huge display where EVERYTHING is made of ice. After donning parkas and going into the just above 0 degree room (which Andrew did NOT like), we explored. Katsu even slid down an ice slide. It was way too expensive, but was still fun. Plus, the adjoining hotel had lots of stuff to look at too - a huge tree, a full-size real gingerbread house, and more!

Our Trip to Texas: On the Way

We decided (sort of spur of the moment, sort of not) to take a road trip to Texas for Christmas. Gas is cheap, for awhile anyways. We wanted to get out of the cold. We had time off. Why not? And a surprise visit!!! I have ALWAYS wanted to just "pop" up on my parents doorstep.

We planned on leaving Saturday, but hearing Friday's forecast for another foot or two of snow, I called up Katsu Thursday afternoon and 3 hours later, we were on the road.

Knowing me, we can't just drive straight through - especially with a kid. So, we did the 18-hr trip in 3 days and stopped to see things on the way. Here is the trip down.

Stop One: Mammoth Cave
On a tour with other Michiganders escaping the storm, we climbed through the cave with Katsu carrying Andrew. The 300 or so steps were very narrow, steep, and slippery ... a little harder than the 10-step tour we missed by 5 minutes. But we had a fun time. Andrew even fell asleep at the end.





Stop Two: Grand Ole Opry and Gaylord Opryland
We stopped by later in Nashville. We first stopped at the mall before realizing that was not Opryland (confusing signage) and then saw the site of the Grand Ole Opry and toured Opryland - a huge beautiful resort with lots of beautiful plants and walkways indoors. A fun diversion.



Stop Three: The Parthenon?
Who knew there is a full-size replica of the Parthenon in Nashville?


Stop Four: Civil Rights Museum (Memphis)
This museum is at the site of Martin Luther King, Jr's Assassination. Andrew slept in the stroller through the entire museum, but Katsu and I just LOVED it. I have a totally different perception of race and civil rights now. It really was beautifully done and definitely paradigm-changing for someone like me who wasn't born until after all these things happened.


Stop Five: Graceland
Can you visit Memphis without visiting the King? Definitely expensive and crowded, but I actually enjoyed learning more about Elvis and seeing his interestingly decorated house. Andrew mostly loved watching his horses. Still - the people who come here for a 3 week vacation every year -- crazy!




Finally, we arrived in Texas with my family no where to be seen. So much for some surprise caroling! After a couple hour stop at my friend Crystal's house, my family finally showed up and we surprised them. So you never know who those 11pm visitors on your doorstep may be!