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This has been a couple months of change for Andrew. We visited North Carolina and picked out a house, Grandma and Grandpa came to visit, Andrew finished up kindergarten, we took a big trip to Japan, we’ve been packing up our apartment and we are getting ready to move. What a busy time.
Andrew originally seemed excited about the move, but now he really does not want to go. I think it is starting to really hit Andrew that it will be an all new place and he will have to make friends. I thought it wouldn’t be too bad since he doesn’t really seem to have a best buddy, but just friends at school that he plays with. But I think his school class felt like a second family, so that is making it hard for him. He is anxious about his new school and talks a lot about not wanting to wear uniforms. He also refuses to sign up for any new activities there. We’ll see how it goes when we leave.
Andrew has been up and down lately. Sometimes he is great. He made Logan a whole book with car pictures today when Logan was inconsolable. He loves to help us pack. But then other times … most of the time … he is a little devil. Arg! I know that he is getting bored and that is part of it. We have had basically no play dates, so aside from a couple days at the park with friends, he hasn’t had any playmates since school ended, and that has been hard. Plus, a lot of things are packed up, so we have a limited toy selection. Plus, he is stressed about the move. So, maybe his behavior will improve. I was finding myself getting more and more frustrated with him, but I am trying to be a lot more patient. Instead of punishing him, I just have him do work – either house work or school work – when he is misbehaving to give him something to do.
Andrew hasn’t been doing a ton of school work, but I have seen a huge improvement in his handwriting just from the little work he has been doing. He is reading pretty well, too. I think he wants to read chapter books (those are what he picked for his summer reading club selections), but he is not quite there, yet. He can read Level 2 books pretty well now. I am also impressed at how well he can do addition as we have been working through his summer math packet.
Andrew seemed to really enjoy Japan and had a great time. He definitely adjusted much better than the other two boys – he is a great traveler. He loved all of the food … although even he got sick of the rice after a little bit. He was the only one who wanted to eat at the hotel buffet in the morning after awhile. He would eat several rice balls there and miso soup every morning. Andrew also enjoyed trying to learn some of the language. The only time Andrew really lost it on the trip was on the way home. He finally feel asleep right at the end of our trip from Tokyo to LA. Trying to get him through passport control, customs, security and to our next gate was AWFUL – he was crying, yelling, kicking. But other than that, he was really a great traveler.
Andrew had a fun little birthday. Not too many of his friends could come, but I think it ended up better that way. Matias, Brendan, Eli, and Colin were there. The boys played all over the playground (we had it at Tilles Park), we had pizza from Dominos, and then did the pinata. Then, the boys kicked the soccer ball around and played some more. Andrew got some pretty fun toys – a science experiment kit (we still have one more to do – Andrew has really enjoyed it), a bug catcher (the boys loved playing with that one at the park), a rubber band board, and a Cars camping chair.
Andrew enjoyed picking out a house with us, I think. I still don’t know if he is sure which house we picked out, which is kind of funny, because we visited that one like 3 times. The boys loved checking out all the rooms – especially any attic spaces or cool things like that – and the backyards especially. But what the boys really liked was eating out with our realtor every day. We basically ended up eating out at Chick-Fil-A a lot with the playground and the boys LOVED it. I think they think Chick-Fil-A equals Greenville. It was a little stressful with all the boys, but I think it was worth it to include them.
The next week Grandma and Grandpa came to visit. I think Andrew was a little jealous, because Seth and Logan did some fun things with them while Andrew was at school and then by the weekend it was raining and we couldn’t all fit in the car, so we ended up just sticking around Clayton and then going to the ward picnic and it wasn’t as fun. But the boys got new scooters from Grandma and Grandpa for their birthdays so that was exciting. They always love spending time with their grandparents.
I expected Andrew to be a little more emotional about ending school, but he wasn’t really. The last day was a half day and then we went to a little party for Mrs. Kay. Of course, the weather was super pouring rain, so it was an interesting last day. We had cupcakes and said good-bye to Mrs. Kay. It was her last year of teaching, so I feel like she had spent the last month giving us little things – anything Japanese she could find, she gave to us. So cute. I know Andrew misses her a little and wants to talk to her.
Andrew is so funny. He is very insistent that he wants to live with us forever. He will work and give us all his money so we don’t have to pay so much for our house. But this week, he was telling me that he won’t get married or have kids since he wants to live with us forever, but that Logan should get married because Katsu and I need to have grandchildren. So funny.
Andrew’s new favorite hobby is audio CDs. We have picked up the A to Z Mysteries from the library and he has listened to like 12 of the chapter books or something! We checked out 7 and have about a week or so till we need to find all the library books and take them back.
Fun Things This Month:
- Andrew’s Army birthday party at Tilles Park.
- House hunting trip to North Carolina.
- Magic House with Seth’s preschool.
- Field Day at Shaw Park. Andrew was with his family group and really seemed to enjoy it – he wished we could have come and helped but my parents were in town.
- Grandma and Grandpa in town. Going to the park, dinner out in Clayton, ward Memorial Day picnic, etc.
- End of school Carnival. Andrew was initially nervous about the rides and said he wouldn’t go (I was irritated because we had spent an arm and a leg on armbands for the expensive rides), but he ended up going on lots of rides, though none of the scary ones. Andrew was especially determined to win a cake in the cake walk and did it like 20 times before he finally won. Most of the cakes were gone by that time, but he picked out a mud cake and brought it home and boys loved it. It was a late evening, but Andrew had a lot of fun. At the end of the night, he did a few rides with a girl from class, Alexa, and they were holding hands. It was so cute.
- Last day of school and party for Mrs. Kay.
- Well check with Dr. All good and no shots!
- TRIP TO JAPAN
- Summer reading program and events
- Celia rocks, a music performance that jet-lagged Andrew slept through
- Puppet show of 3 Billy Goats Gruff
- Juggling Jeff
- Dentist appointment – no cavities and Andrew’s first adult teeth, his 6 year old molars, are coming in. Andrew is really excited and tells everyone he meets about the teeth coming in and is always opening his mouth wide to show me their progress.
- Butterfly house and play date with Matthew.
- Park with Gages.
- 4th of July – we went to the Disney store during the day because that is what the boys really wanted to do. Then, we had dinner at our friends’ house and then went out on their boat. The boys weren’t really interested in going out on the boat, so they stayed and played in the water in their lifejackets, which they LOVED. They also spent time playing in the sand and going down some mudslides. We saw the fireworks and then went back home, sandy but happy. It was a really fun day.
- Daddy date to Johnny Rockets and the Disney store, which the kids almost love as much as Disneyland.
- Painting tiles at a pottery store (a reward from the summer reading program) and then playing in the water at Millenium Park.
- Free movie at the theatre – Chimpanzee. Andrew had seen it before, but didn’t remember it much. He really enjoyed it, but the other boys only lasted about an hour, so we went to Sonic afterwards to have fun.